Facing Alzheimer’s: What I’ve Learned About Protecting Our Minds and Finding Hope

Facing Alzheimer’s: What I’ve Learned About Protecting Our Minds and Finding Hope - Benefit Airship

We all have moments that make us stop and wonder if our minds are changing. Maybe we forget a name mid-sentence, or lose track of why we walked into a room. But for some of us, it’s deeper than that.

If you’re reading this, you might know the fear of watching someone you love drift away — little by little — from dementia or Alzheimer’s. I’ve been there too. I’ve worked in long-term care. I’ve experienced close friends and family members struggle with this disease. 

For my family, this isn’t just a topic — it’s personal. Alzheimer’s and dementia run in my wife’s family. We’ve talked about it, worried about it, and researched everything we could to beat these diseases before they begin. We want to be in control.

That’s why I wanted to write this.Not as a scientist, but as someone who has seen it, felt it, and wants to understand it — because understanding gives us power. This isn’t an article about despair. It’s about taking back our strength. It’s about learning how these diseases work so we can do everything in our power to delay, prevent, or soften their impact. And it’s about remembering that we’re in this together — learning, fighting, and supporting one another along the way.


The Current State of Dementia and Alzheimer’s

More than 55 million people worldwide are living with dementia today¹. That number is expected to double every 20 years—reaching about 78 million by 2030.

In the United States, roughly 7.2 million Americans over age 65 are living with Alzheimer’s dementia². By 2060, that number may grow to nearly 14 million³. Every 65 seconds, another American is diagnosed⁴.

Alzheimer’s is one of the top 10 causes of death in the U.S., ranking 6th among people aged 65 and older⁵. Unless we find more effective prevention or treatment options, the numbers will continue to climb through 2026 and beyond.


What’s the Difference Between Dementia and Alzheimer’s?

People often use the terms interchangeably, but they’re not the same.

Dementia is a broad term describing a decline in memory, reasoning, or other thinking skills severe enough to interfere with daily life. It’s a syndrome, not a specific disease.

Alzheimer’s disease, on the other hand, is a specific cause of dementia—it accounts for roughly 60–70% of all dementia cases⁶. Other causes include vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, and frontotemporal dementia.


A Brief History of Alzheimer’s and Dementia

The story begins in 1906 with Dr. Alois Alzheimer, a German psychiatrist and neuropathologist. He studied a woman named Auguste D., who had memory loss, confusion, and hallucinations. After her death, Alzheimer discovered unusual plaques and tangles in her brain — marking the first documented case of what became known as Alzheimer’s disease⁷.

Around the same time, Dr. Oskar Fischer described similar amyloid plaques in other patients. Later in the 20th century, researchers like Dr. Robert Katzman helped redefine Alzheimer’s — not as “old age” or “senility,” but as a medical condition with a biological cause.

With modern imaging and genetics, we now know that Alzheimer’s and other dementias are complex — a mix of protein buildup, inflammation, and vascular changes that damage brain cells over time. What was once seen as an inevitable part of aging is now understood as a disease process that we can study, manage, and one day, perhaps prevent.


Famous People Touched by Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s and dementia don’t discriminate — they’ve affected artists, leaders, and icons around the world. Among them:

  • Ronald Reagan, U.S. President, who publicly shared his diagnosis in 1994 and became a symbol of awareness and courage.

  • Rita Hayworth, legendary actress and dancer, one of the earliest public figures to bring attention to the disease in the 1980s.

  • Glen Campbell, country music star, who continued performing and documenting his journey after diagnosis.

  • Tony Bennett, beloved singer, who continued performing into his 90s despite an Alzheimer’s diagnosis.

Their stories remind us that this disease spares no one — and that awareness, compassion, and advocacy can make a lasting difference.


Understanding Dementia

Let’s start by clearing up what “dementia” really means. It’s not one single disease—it’s more like an umbrella term that covers many conditions affecting the brain’s ability to think, remember, and communicate.

If you imagine your brain as a city, each neighborhood has its own job—some handle memory, some control language, some manage emotions. Dementia is what happens when the communication lines between those neighborhoods start to go down. Streets (neural pathways) get blocked, power lines (connections) start to flicker, and soon, traffic (information) can’t move like it used to.

Now, that’s the big picture. Here’s what’s happening inside, in simple terms:

  • Neurons, or brain cells, are like tiny messengers that pass signals using electrical and chemical impulses.

  • Over time—or because of certain diseases—some of these neurons stop working correctly or die off.

  • The brain tries to reroute information, but as more connections fail, we begin to see changes in memory, speech, and reasoning.

Different types of dementia have different causes:

  • In vascular dementia, little “traffic jams” happen in the brain’s blood vessels—tiny strokes or blockages that reduce oxygen and nutrients.

  • In Lewy body dementia, odd protein “clumps” called alpha-synuclein form inside neurons, jamming the communication system.

  • In frontotemporal dementia, proteins like tau or TDP-43 affect the brain’s frontal and temporal lobes—the parts that handle personality, judgment, and speech.

These sound technical, but here’s the main idea: in every case, brain cells are getting damaged or disconnected, and that loss shows up as confusion, forgetfulness, or changes in personality.

The early signs can be subtle. Maybe someone forgets a recent conversation, misplaces things more often, or repeats questions. As dementia progresses, the “city” inside the brain loses more power—making it harder to plan, recognize faces, or remember daily routines.

It’s important to remember: dementia doesn’t happen overnight. For many people, it develops slowly, over years. Sometimes it moves at a crawl; other times faster, depending on the cause. But no matter how it begins, knowledge is the first defense. Once we understand what’s really happening, it’s not quite as mysterious—or as hopeless—as it feels.

Understanding Alzheimer’s

Now let’s talk about Alzheimer’s—the most common form of dementia. If dementia is the umbrella, Alzheimer’s is the biggest storm cloud underneath it.

Imagine your brain again as that bustling city. In Alzheimer’s disease, something starts clogging up the streets and short-circuiting the power lines. Those “somethings” are two types of abnormal proteins: amyloid plaques and tau tangles. Let’s break that down without the jargon.

  • Amyloid plaques are like sticky piles of protein garbage that build up between brain cells. Picture chewing gum stuck in the wiring—it disrupts how signals get from one neuron to another.

  • Tau tangles happen inside the brain cells. Tau is a normal protein that acts like scaffolding, helping cells transport nutrients. But in Alzheimer’s, those tau proteins twist out of shape, tangling up like frayed extension cords and choking the cell from within.

When these plaques and tangles spread, they block communication, starve brain cells, and eventually cause them to die. It’s not just about losing memories—it’s the slow breakdown of how the brain organizes, recalls, and connects information.

It usually starts in the hippocampus, the brain’s memory center. That’s why one of the first symptoms is short-term memory loss—forgetting names, conversations, or where you put your keys. Over time, it spreads to other parts of the brain that handle language, reasoning, and emotions.

Doctors often describe Alzheimer’s in stages:

  • Early stage – You might forget recent events or find multitasking harder, but you’re still mostly independent.

  • Middle stage – Confusion grows. Familiar tasks, like paying bills or driving, become tougher. Mood swings and frustration are common.

  • Late stage – Communication fades, mobility declines, and full-time care becomes necessary.

The whole process can span 8 to 10 years on average, sometimes longer. It’s gradual—like a light dimming slowly, not switching off all at once.

The important thing to understand is this: Alzheimer’s doesn’t appear suddenly when you start forgetting things. The changes begin 10 to 20 years earlier, while you still feel perfectly fine. That’s the silent phase, when these proteins quietly build up and inflammation smolders.

Here’s the hopeful part: because it starts so early, we have time to act. Through lifestyle, diet, exercise, sleep, and medical advances, we can strengthen the brain’s “infrastructure” so it resists the damage longer—or maybe even prevents it altogether.

So, if this all sounds complex, don’t worry. We’re going to walk through it piece by piece. Think of it as learning how your brain works under the hood. The more we understand it, the more empowered we become to protect it.


When Does It Begin?

Alzheimer’s doesn’t start when symptoms appear — it begins long before. Research shows that changes in the brain, such as amyloid buildup and tau tangles, can begin 10 to 20 years before noticeable memory problems⁸.

This “silent” or preclinical phase is when the disease quietly develops behind the scenes. You may feel perfectly fine, yet subtle biological changes are already underway. That’s why lifestyle choices in our 40s, 50s, and even 30s can have such a major impact later on.

Typical Age of Diagnosis

Most Alzheimer’s diagnoses happen after age 65, known as late-onset Alzheimer’s.

  • About 95% of all cases fall into this group.

  • Symptoms often begin between ages 65 and 80, progressing gradually over 8–12 years.

But there’s also a rarer form called early-onset Alzheimer’s, which appears before age 65 — sometimes as early as the late 40s or 50s.

  • It affects roughly 5% of all Alzheimer’s cases.

  • It’s often linked to stronger genetic factors (like mutations in APP, PSEN1, or PSEN2).
    Early-onset cases tend to progress more quickly and can be easily mistaken for stress or depression in the beginning.

For most people, though, dementia and Alzheimer’s develop slowly, influenced by decades of vascular health, inflammation, and lifestyle patterns.

That’s why prevention isn’t something we start at retirement — it’s something we build now.

The earlier we take care of our brain — through exercise, nutrition, sleep, and mental engagement — the better our chances of delaying or avoiding cognitive decline altogether.


Genetics and Family History

Whenever Alzheimer’s or dementia comes up in conversation, one of the first questions people ask is, “Does it run in my family?”

It’s a fair—and deeply personal—question. For my wife’s family, that question hits close to home. Watching loved ones develop dementia makes you wonder if you’re next in line.

So, let’s take a clear, honest look at what genetics really mean here—without getting lost in the science.

Think of your genes as a kind of blueprint, passed down from your parents. But that blueprint isn’t destiny—it’s more like a rough draft. Lifestyle, environment, and health choices are the editors that can rewrite parts of the story.


How Much Is Genetic?

For most people, Alzheimer’s and dementia are not purely genetic.

Scientists estimate that about 60–80% of Alzheimer’s risk is influenced by genetics⁹, but that doesn’t mean it’s inherited in a simple way. There are two main genetic categories to understand:

  1. Risk Genes — These increase the chance of developing Alzheimer’s, but they don’t guarantee it.
    The most studied is APOE (short for apolipoprotein E). Everyone inherits two copies—one from each parent.

    • APOE-ε2: Rare, but seems to protect against Alzheimer’s.

    • APOE-ε3: The most common, considered neutral.

    • APOE-ε4: The risk variant. Having one copy increases your risk; having two copies (one from each parent) increases it even more. But even then—it’s risk, not fate.* Many people with APOE-ε4 never develop Alzheimer’s, and many without it still do.

  2. Deterministic Genes — These are extremely rare and almost guarantee Alzheimer’s if inherited. They account for less than 1% of all cases and usually cause early-onset Alzheimer’s, appearing before age 60.

These include mutations in genes called APP, PSEN1, and PSEN2. Families that carry them often have multiple generations affected at relatively young ages.

What About Other Dementias?

Some other forms of dementia—like frontotemporal dementia (FTD)—can also run strongly in families. Mutations in genes such as MAPT or GRN have been identified. But again, these are rare. Most dementia cases are what doctors call sporadic, meaning they occur without a direct inherited cause.


Genes Load the Gun, Lifestyle Pulls the Trigger

That’s the simplest way to think about it. Genes may set the stage, but your daily choices—diet, exercise, sleep, stress, and connection—decide how the play unfolds.

Even if your family history includes Alzheimer’s, you still have tremendous influence over your brain health. Studies show that people at high genetic risk who live active, heart-healthy lifestyles can delay or even prevent symptoms from developing¹⁰.

In other words, genes might whisper, but lifestyle can shout louder.


How to Prevent or Delay Dementia and Alzheimer’s

Exercise and Movement

Regular exercise boosts blood flow, reduces inflammation, and increases levels of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF)—a protein that supports neuron growth and survival.

Just 150 minutes a week of moderate activity can make a difference¹¹.

 

Diet and Nutrition

The MIND and Mediterranean diets are linked to lower Alzheimer’s risk¹².
They emphasize:

  • Leafy greens, berries, nuts, olive oil, fish, and whole grains

  • Less red meat, processed food, and added sugar

These diets improve heart and vascular health, which directly supports brain function.


Sleep and Recovery

Deep sleep is when the brain’s glymphatic system clears out waste like amyloid proteins¹³.

Poor or fragmented sleep increases risk. Consistent, quality sleep is one of the most powerful tools we have.


Social and Cognitive Engagement

Staying mentally and socially active builds cognitive reserve—the brain’s ability to adapt and compensate for damage¹⁴.

Learning new skills, engaging in conversations, and managing stress all help.


Supplements and Mushrooms

Some supplements show early promise but aren’t proven cures.

  • Omega-3 fatty acids, B vitamins, and vitamin D support overall brain health.

  • Lion’s mane mushrooms contain compounds that may stimulate nerve growth, though human evidence is still early¹⁵.
    Use supplements as support—not substitutes—for healthy living.


What to Avoid

Poor Diet and Excess Sugar

High-sugar, high-fat diets cause inflammation, oxidative stress, and insulin resistance—all enemies of the brain. Processed foods and trans fats are especially harmful.

Heavy Alcohol Use

While light social drinking remains debated, excessive alcohol is neurotoxic and accelerates brain shrinkage¹⁶.

Smoking and Toxins

Nicotine, heavy metals, and air pollution damage vascular and neural tissue, increasing dementia risk.

Sleep Deprivation and Stress

Both elevate cortisol levels, shrink the hippocampus, and impair memory consolidation.


Myths and Misunderstandings

When it comes to Alzheimer’s and dementia, misinformation spreads quickly. These diseases carry fear and stigma, which makes it easy for myths to take root.

“Memory loss is just a normal part of aging.”

It’s true that our brains slow down a little as we age, but dementia isn’t normal aging.

Normal aging is like your computer taking an extra second to open a file. Dementia is when the hard drive starts to fail.

If memory loss interferes with daily life — repeating questions, getting lost, or forgetting familiar names — it’s time to talk to a doctor.

“Once you have Alzheimer’s, nothing can be done.”

This myth discourages early diagnosis, yet early action matters most.
Medications, therapy, lifestyle changes, and caregiver support can slow progression and improve quality of life.
Catching it early is like fixing a leak before it floods the house.


“Supplements or miracle cures can reverse Alzheimer’s.”

There’s no pill, oil, or supplement proven to reverse Alzheimer’s.
Some, like omega-3s or curcumin, may support brain health, but none replace medical treatment. Be skeptical of products that promise miracles.


“Alzheimer’s only affects the elderly.”

While most cases occur after 65, about 5% are early-onset — sometimes appearing in people as young as their 40s¹⁹.
These cases are often linked to rare genetic mutations and can progress more quickly, but they also remind us that prevention should start earlier in life.


“If it’s not in my family, I’m safe.”

Most Alzheimer’s cases happen in people with no family history²⁰.
Lifestyle and vascular health play major roles, meaning prevention applies to everyone.


Current and Emerging Treatments

For decades, Alzheimer’s care focused on managing symptoms rather than addressing the root cause. That’s beginning to change.

Symptomatic Treatments

These don’t cure the disease, but they help the brain work better:

  • Cholinesterase inhibitors (donepezil, rivastigmine, galantamine) boost acetylcholine, a key memory chemical²¹. They improve attention and clarity in mild-to-moderate cases.

  • Memantine (Namenda) regulates glutamate, a chemical that can overstimulate and damage brain cells. Often used for moderate-to-severe Alzheimer’s, sometimes in combination with other drugs.

  • Supportive medications — antidepressants or sleep aids — can reduce anxiety, depression, and agitation, improving quality of life.

Disease-Modifying Therapies

Recent breakthroughs aim to slow the disease itself:

  • Lecanemab (Leqembi) and Donanemab target amyloid plaques, clearing them from the brain²². They’ve shown about 25–30% slowing of cognitive decline in early stages.

  • Anti-tau drugs aim to prevent tangles inside neurons.

  • Anti-inflammatory therapies focus on calming the brain’s immune cells (microglia) that cause chronic inflammation²³.
    These treatments come with side effects and are still being studied, but they represent the most significant step forward in decades.

Vaccines and the Immune Connection

One of the most exciting new areas of research focuses on how vaccines may protect the brain.

At first glance, vaccines and Alzheimer’s might seem unrelated — but they share a powerful link through the immune system.

Researchers are discovering that keeping the immune system active and well-regulated may help clear harmful proteins and reduce chronic brain inflammation.

Several studies have found that people who receive common adult vaccines — such as the flu, pneumonia, and shingles vaccines — have a lower risk of developing dementia later in life²⁷.

 

The Shingles Vaccine

The shingles vaccine (Zostavax and its newer version, Shingrix) may offer particularly strong protection.
Here’s why:

  • The varicella-zoster virus, which causes chickenpox and shingles, can sometimes reactivate later in life and trigger inflammation in the brain and nervous system.

  • This inflammation may accelerate the buildup of amyloid plaques and tau tangles — both linked to Alzheimer’s.
    Studies published by the Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease and Oxford University found that adults who received the shingles vaccine had up to a 20–30% lower risk of developing dementia²⁸.

While researchers aren’t sure whether the vaccine directly prevents Alzheimer’s or simply strengthens immune defense, the evidence is promising.

It’s possible that routine vaccines could become part of a comprehensive dementia-prevention strategy — one that keeps both the immune system and the brain resilient as we age.


Non-Drug Therapies

Cognitive exercises, music therapy, and regular physical activity have measurable effects on mood, memory, and well-being.

They may not appear “medical,” but they’re some of the most powerful tools we have for maintaining dignity and connection.


The Future of Alzheimer’s Research

If the last decade was about understanding Alzheimer’s, the next one is about outsmarting it.


Genetics and Personalized Medicine

New research is mapping how individual genes affect Alzheimer’s risk and response to treatment. In the near future, doctors could develop personalized prevention plans based on your genetic makeup, lab results, and lifestyle²⁴.


Artificial Intelligence

AI is helping detect Alzheimer’s years before symptoms appear²⁵. By analyzing brain scans and bloodwork, AI models can identify subtle changes invisible to the human eye. It’s also helping design smarter drug trials and predict which patients respond best to treatment.


Stem Cell and Regenerative Medicine

Stem cells could one day repair or replace damaged neurons — much like replanting trees in a forest after a wildfire. Early research is promising but still experimental.


The Gut-Brain Connection

Your gut health influences inflammation and even brain chemistry. New evidence shows that gut bacteria imbalances may accelerate amyloid buildup²⁶. Future treatments may include probiotics or diet-based therapies to protect brain health from the inside out.


Blood-Based Biomarkers

Blood tests that detect amyloid or tau years before symptoms appear could make early detection routine and affordable — a game-changer for prevention.


Combination Therapies

Alzheimer’s may eventually be treated like cancer or HIV: through multi-target approaches. Combining anti-amyloid, anti-tau, and anti-inflammatory drugs could finally slow or stop progression altogether.


Regaining Our Power

Alzheimer’s and dementia are not diseases we can simply cure once they appear. They aren’t like the flu or a cold that runs its course and goes away. Once they take hold, we can manage symptoms, but we can’t turn back time. That’s why prevention isn’t just important — it’s everything.

Every choice we make today — how we eat, move, rest, and connect — shapes the future of our brains. Science tells us that small, consistent actions can strengthen the mind’s resilience long before symptoms begin. That’s where our power lies.

If you’ve been touched by Alzheimer’s or dementia, you already know how much is at stake. But you’re not powerless. You can protect your brain and help others do the same. You can spark conversations, share knowledge, and make brain health a daily priority — not just for yourself, but for the people you love.

These aren’t solitary battles; they’re shared ones. When we look out for one another — when we commit to prevention, early action, and compassion — we rewrite the story of what’s possible.

Let’s be the generation that changes how we face these conditions. Let’s refuse to wait for a cure and instead build a culture of prevention, awareness, and hope — one healthy mind, one caring act, one shared effort at a time. Because Alzheimer’s may challenge our memories, but it can’t erase our determination to protect them.


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